November 24, 2023 VENTING

As I see life, the way it's been unfolding, I realize a person who truly loves you will avoid with his own life the possibility of ever getting physically and/or emotionally hurt and vice versa. And the person who says to love you will ensure you and your children are kept safe from any harmful way and anything that could pollute that kind of integrity.

Would try his best to make sure he got the right treatment to overcome his anger as a result of a previous marriage or even perhaps a traumatic childhood event. It was not nice of him to bring me this far out to just completely give me the cold shoulder and worse, letting our children believe it's okay for them to believe a lie instead of correcting their behavior because it benefitted his hidden agenda. 

The military trusted him with a family care plan that was jotted down in 2006 precisely to ensure integrity is upheld with our marriage license, a license isn't a contract it's a privilege. We survived the worst as a couple and as a family of five thanks to my doing hence why the U.S. Army awarded me as a result of my personal contributions that remain active.

I'm thankful and grateful for all of our military service men and women in uniform and for those who've already retired living according to their good deeds. I know I've been very patient with my husband to turn his life around by looking into the mirror and realizing the damage he's provoked by denying me the right to our mutual community property and having me go homeless from one day to the next over false claims and assumptions. After all he’s still my service member and veteran.